Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inspiration. Show all posts

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Lessons for Life #26 - Showing Compassion

I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.


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More important than being loved, is to love.
- Dalai Lama 



“A human being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feeling as something separated from the rest, a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.” 
― Albert Einstein



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Sunday, July 8, 2012

Happy New Sunday!


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Sunday is the day where I usually have the most amount of epiphanies, feelings of insightfulness, thoughts of how I'm going to be well-organised for the week ahead and moments of "I think I'm going to start that today." 

Just like at the start of every new year when we usually feel so motivated to make a huge difference in our lives for the year to come, I basically have this feeling going every Sunday in the hopes that the week to come will be even more life changing than the one that just passed me by.

Every year without fail, I hear a person ranting on about how making New Year Resolutions are so crappy - that if we want to start something, we shouldn't wait for 1 January. Yes. I do agree. It takes way too long to wait for 1 January but hey, the truth of the matter is that most of us prefer starting something new on a day that really does feel new. Call it paranoia, OCD or just superstition.

This feeling of wanting to accomplish world domination in a week usually lasts for the whole day and slowly diminishes as the week grows shorter and my work heap gets taller. 

Luckily, another Sunday always comes by!

Happy New Sunday! 

With Love,
Aditi

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Exam Study Kit


The must haves this exam season:

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1. Preferably kept within an arm's reach.

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2. Stacks of post its. (Make sure you have a few spare for exam doodles)

3. Highlighters - Every book deserves a rainbow.

4. The more, the merrier. Late nights. Early morning. Every 10 minutes.
Give them names. You will be using them a lot.

And finally....

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5. Save. Print. Paste. Use only in extreme circumstances.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

E is for...Exercising isn't pretty.


Unless you are one of those models in health magazines, people in exercise videos or someone who leaves the gym looking the same as when you arrived, you pretty much know that the act of exercising isn't very pretty.

Being of average height (okay, maybe the lower bound of average) and naturally having a figure that tends to show everything I have swallowed, I recently started making an effort to exercise. It was at the end of November last year when I cracked. I was not obese or heavily overweight but it was the fact that I was reduced to fitting into only 3 pairs of stretch jeans and wearing jackets in Spring because my t-shirts showed my budding muffin top that made me finally decide to do something.

I started buying health magazines, a beginner's yoga dvd and pulled off all the clothes and handbags that were hanging on the stationary bike that my dad had bought 20 years ago. The first few days felt like someone had strapped me into a straight jacket but I was determined. The well composed, sweat-free lady in the yoga dvd had told me, "Enjoy the feeling. It is your body telling you that it's working."

In the first few days, I sure did want to smash her face every time she said that while I did another squat or lunge but I tried, at the very least, to accept the "pain" every time I bent to touch my toes, hoping that one day it would be my friend. At the end of the 20 minute yoga session (first few weeks, I had only made it through the first 10), I was left huffing as if I was in search of my last breath, drenched in sweat and believed my bones had temporarily lost its rigidity.

Now, 4 months later, I still act and look as if I was put through a gauntlet every time I get off the exercise bike but the best part of it is that the range of "wearable" clothing in my wardrobe has now increased considerably!  I haven't dropped 10 dress sizes or anywhere near ready to write a book but the fact that I am back at a weight that makes me not feel conscious of the angle in which I need to sit to hide the roll that decided to make an appearance every time I sat, leaves me feeling much happier!

Lessons learnt:
  • The act of exercising to lose weight is definitely not very pretty (for both, the participant and their audience) but the results are worthwhile! 

  • Main ingredients required:
  1. Wanting to lose the weight because YOU want to.
  2. Willpower to get off the couch and onto the bike.
  3. Willingness to not see it as weight loss, rather as "energy gain".

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

There's no time like the present.

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"Time is an illusion" - Albert Einstein.
Our dear comrade, Albert could not have expressed this thought any better than I could have licked a bowl of fresh cream, clean. Everyday, every thought we have, move we make, decision we take seems to be going by quicker and quicker like a hungry man at a buffet.

"Where is the time?!" - I ask myself this question too frequently for my liking. There's so much I want to do, so many ideas and thoughts to share, to do lists to complete, deadlines to meet, goals to achieve and people to please yet time is the only thing that's getting in my way!

Recently, while caught up in the mayhem of my life, I got a chance to take a "Kit-Kat" break and go shopping (my fav!) for a birthday gift for a dear friend. Having managed to find an ultra cool hourglass was great but it was the message on the box that got me truly inspired. 

It went as follows:

"A person that dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life." "Being rich is having money; being wealthy is having time". "I am becoming more and more myself with time. I guess that's what grace is, the refinement of your soul through time". "You're writing the story of your life one moment at a time". "Opportunity knocks at the strangest times. Its not the time that matters, but how you answer the door". "When we are doing what we love, we don't care about time. For at that moment time does not exist and we are truly free". "A good time to keep your mouth shut is when you're in deep water". "Time spent laughing, is time spent with the Gods". "Time is the subtle thief of youth". "Lost time is never found again". "May you always live in interesting times". "Regret for wasted time, is more wasted time". "Whether it is the best of times or the worst of times, it is the only time we've got". "The time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time". "Time is free, but it is priceless, you cannot own it, but you can use it". "Time is precious, but truth is more precious than time". "Time is what we want most, but use the worst". "Time has a wonderful way of weeding out the trivial". "The timeless in you is aware of life's timelessness; and know that yesterday is but today's memory and tomorrow is today's dream." "He who has done his best for his own time has lived for all time." "There's a time for everything." 

Yes, that is just a few definitions of time. Defining the meaning of love might just be simpler but alas, the one thing that I have realized is that the faster we run to beat time, the further back we go. Time waits for no man and no man should wait for time. Don't let time define your actions, let your actions define your time.

After all, time is just an illusion...




Saturday, January 28, 2012

Not all things vintage smell funny but rather are just funny...

Vintage humor sure does create many a smile. Here are some of my favorites:

...and be known as a master chef.
We are forced to lie at times.
My predicament at times.
...or both.
My mothers' favorite words.
Enough said.
Don't work hard, work smart.

For many, it seems to be their favorite cereal. 
...Sometimes for days.
...And free!!!
We've all had those days but never give up because there will be days where...
The best days for sure!

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

O, So Inspiring!


The one thing that I have always believed in is that learning from another person's life experiences is just as significant as learning from your own. It is not mere words that one utters when giving advice, but something that they felt in that "aha!" moment of theirs that changed their lives for the better or sometimes worse which could inspire you to know better, do better and be better. If you really (and I mean REALLY) get what they saying, Take it! Use it! Never forget it!

I am inspired daily in life by quotes and sayings. One such person whose words have lead me to many "aha!" moments is the queen of talk, Oprah Winfrey.

Yes, she truly is the queen of talk! Whether it is asking the hardest questions, going to the hardest hit places or most importantly just being a fellow human, Oprah knows how to touch one's soul. My admiration for her over the years has been undying. 


In honor of this great woman, here is some of her wisdom that to keep in mind and use at all times:
  • I don't think you ever stop giving. I really don't. I think it's an on-going process. And it's not just about being able to write a check. It's being able to touch somebody's life.   
  •  Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough. 
  • You know you are on the road to success if you would do your job, and not be paid for it.
  • The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude. 
  • Use your life to serve the world.
After all...
When you know better, you do better.

Monday, January 2, 2012

25 Lessons for Life

 Make it count. Be happy. Get ahead. Here are 25 Lessons for Life that I had come across a while back which has helped me immensely in becoming the person I am. Here's hoping it will better your life too..

1. Don't feel entitled to anything you don't sweat and struggle for.
2. Set goals and work quietly and systematically toward them.
3. Assign yourself. Don't wait around for others to direct you in life.
4. Never work just for money or power. They won't save your soul or help you sleep at night.
5. Don't be afraid of taking risks or of being criticized.
6. Take parenting and family life seriously and insist that those you work for and those who represent you do.

7. Remember that your mate is not your parent or servant, but your partner and friend.
8. Forming families is serious business.
9. Be honest.
10. Remember and help the world remember that the fellowship of human beings is more important than the fellowship of race and class and gender in a democratic society.
11. Sell the shadow for the substance.

12. Never give up.
13. Be confident that you can make a difference.
14. Don't ever stop learning and improving your mind.
15. Don't be afraid of hardwork or of teaching your children to work.
16. Slow down and live.
17. Choose your friends carefully.
18. Be a will-do, can-try person.
19. Try to live in the present while you prepare for the future.
20. Use your political and economic power for the community and others less fortunate.

21. Listen for the 'sound of the genuine" within yourself and others.
22. You are in charge of your own attitude.
23. Remember your roots, your history and the forbears' shoulders on which you stand.
24. Be reliable, Be faithful, Finish what you start.
25. And always remember that you are never alone.